Hello
Good news... I indeed tried all of the obvious stuff, but none of it worked. Unfortunately some midi problems...
A quick phonecall to handinhand, and the module was sent back to them to fix. Although they fixed that part, they said that they werent happy with another part of the module, so sent me a replacment

. Got the new one back and midi is being sent very nicely... I am now getting the sounds that i want.
Quick report... I also have a Roland TD-6. I tried them both side by side. The triggers on the 2box are much nicer. Im pretty sure this is not just the settings i have put them on, but to my ears the 2box seems to pick up much more velocity range, wich means a much more real sounding kit.
Also, a note for other people using it for midi: The midi notes stated from the module seem to be one octave below. E.g. It says a snare may using midi note c2, but actually it sends as c1. just have to bear that in mind when you map. Im sure they will change that in a future update.
Full marks to handinhand. Customer service is absolutely amazing. I'd buy it again just for the assistance i recieved.
Ta
Neil